Relationship Advice

Valentines Day: Facts & Fallacies:

Men and women may think differently when it comes to romantic gestures. Women have been wooed by the “ideal” of a man rescuing them from feelings of abandonment and taking her to an island in the sun or seducing her on a bed of roses. Some men on the other hand may believe that it is not really important to buy flowers or perfume as a token that they care. Others will be flashingly forward and provide romance in abundance.

More about the reasons for this difference and how you can handle differences is discussed in Chapter 2

Fact or fiction: fast forward if you think you can forget Valentines Day. Valentines day conjures up magical tones of lust love and desire then becomes predisposed with notions of candlelit dinners. champagne. crystals, chocolates and diamonds.

As adults, we experience the commercialization of Valentine's Day as a day of great expectations, and just as often, great disappointments when gift-giving (or lack thereof) don’t support our romantic dreams. So many articles have been written on the subject of Valentines Day. It’s a commercial concept. Has no relevance to relationship success. Women are brainwashed by it. Men and women feel duty bound to give a gift and do something creative. Test’s a man’s willingness and ability to be romantic. The list is endless.

However an interesting insight is that studies have found that men who exhibit what are termed “feminine” or “romantic” traits are more often successful in their relationships. It appears that positive behaviors like nurturing, tenderness, and sweetness actually do work. Fact, women are feminine and they love flowers. They nurture their senses. That said, a rose in your teeth, a song in your heart, breakfast in bed sexy lingerie and other fruits of the imagination might just improve your prospect of partnership success. Ladies put that pole dancing practice to work. Sexy lingerie is not only a gift to oneself.

Valentines Day is also a fun and safe way to suggest to someone you fancy them, or to send a kind word to a friend to let them know you are thinking of them. Nurturing behaviours that cost little, yet mean a lot to the recipient.

Some Triple f club members have told me “secretly” that they are planning extraordinary, sexy or romantic settings and props for their Valentines Day. Just who is setting up the Arabian tent? Others though forgotten by those that they thought would remember, have planned a dinner or a night out with friends. Be proactive and make sure that you do something nice for yourself and special friends on Valentines Day. Maybe something you would not normally do.

If you need to meet that special someone then phone me for an appointment. I have interviewed thousands of singles and couples and have a wealth of experience to enable you to become a successful dater and achieve relationship success.

Phone Lee on 0488404040 for an appointment